"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey, I just started school 2 weeks ago (been sick), and I used to be in an all boys school but this yr some girls came in.

why Is it that those girls keep ignoring me when they talk to my friends? and like when i add a comment they just seem to ignore me...

need some advices and thoughts here

and btw im not ugly or anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You either intimidate or annoy them.
 

1life

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You either intimidate or annoy them.
nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by 1life
nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
Right, weird sounds and goofy...that would fall under annoying them.
 

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yea but it makes them laugh in class...
so what kind of attitude should I adopt then?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by whyshy
****y and Funny (C+F)
yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
 

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Just slap one of them and the rest will all be nice to you :)
 

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Originally posted by 1life
yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
C AND F rarely fails. Have you tried it and you failed with these girls?

If you didn't then try.
 

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all guys school....whats urdad a lutenent in the army?...i would never tourcher my child like that! NEVer
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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