"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey, I just started school 2 weeks ago (been sick), and I used to be in an all boys school but this yr some girls came in.

why Is it that those girls keep ignoring me when they talk to my friends? and like when i add a comment they just seem to ignore me...

need some advices and thoughts here

and btw im not ugly or anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You either intimidate or annoy them.
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You either intimidate or annoy them.
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nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
 
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Originally posted by 1life
nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
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Right, weird sounds and goofy...that would fall under annoying them.
 
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yea but it makes them laugh in class...
so what kind of attitude should I adopt then?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by whyshy
****y and Funny (C+F)
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yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
 
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Just slap one of them and the rest will all be nice to you :)
 
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Originally posted by 1life
yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
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C AND F rarely fails. Have you tried it and you failed with these girls?

If you didn't then try.
 
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all guys school....whats urdad a lutenent in the army?...i would never tourcher my child like that! NEVer
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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