"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls you bump into having not seen them for years...

aftershock

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Title says it all really - you're in a club, you see a few HBs from school that you haven't seen since you were 16 - 4.5 years ago.

Obviously you approach. But what do you actually say, do, etc? Would you adjust your game somewhat?

I'm curious to hear thoughts on this. I'll post my thoughts later.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well from logic I know that she knows me... so openers are not required, but give her a little stimulation and some bragging rights.

I play the FBuddy and/or wing girl card/s.

My old friends from high school either have gotten incredibly HOT, or were hot, and are now sour pusses, or getting chubby, after realizing HS was effed up, and food will help solve the problem of the perverts that have been raised.

You know the girl(at least some tidbits) so you don't need to pump for questions, exhaust your last rounds before reloading.

Her friends need to accept the social proof if you don't perv her up with words and innuendo.

After that you just play your usual game with your past being your crutch...
 

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Easy ****.

There is generally interest on her part. In my case, I've changed a lot, and keep changing again, and I'm attractive. So, you had some kind of bond before, and now, she doesn't know much about you, maybe you could be her prince, and she has some level of trust so.. you do the math.


So, all you do is say hi, do some ****y ****, ask her # for a get together, and that's it.
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Easy ****.
I agree. BUT what makes this different is if I fvck up with a random girl, I don't care; I find another. Here I only have once chance and I'd like to maximise it!

Originally posted by SamePendo

There is generally interest on her part. In my case, I've changed a lot, and keep changing again, and I'm attractive. So, you had some kind of bond before, and now, she doesn't know much about you, maybe you could be her prince, and she has some level of trust so.. you do the math.


So, all you do is say hi, do some ****y ****, ask her # for a get together, and that's it.
Almost exactly what I thought.
 
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