"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girls with tooooo much make up!

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so i got a date in a couple of hours and like... the girl that i'm going with tends to over do it with make up. i'm talking about where you got the whole face and half the neck all white and then the rest of the body is a different skin color. it's freaky and disgusting and i'm thinking of telling her that if she does that i ain't going. i know that seems harsh but i will feel really fuking awkward walking around a girl with that sh!t on. what y'all think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I whole-heartedly agree!!!! This is a false persona!! Give me the real and let me decide!!!! I tell women - don't wear that chemical shyt on your face - I dictate and they follow!!!!
 

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Hmm call her up ahead of time,just tell her that you will be like 15-20 minutes late because of 'x and y' then ease it in the conversation somehow.
 

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i'd say, not to mention is on your first date! just be patient for a while and bring up the conversation of gals with too much make up on! point out someone and have a chat to her about how annoying that is, make sure not direct it at her!! infact say something good about het after! she'll realise!
 

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is it bad of me to not wanna go because she's not HOT HOT? she's not thin and not fat but if she was she'd be fine. should i just go anyway? cause i do wanna go out with someone for company. i just feel weird not walking around with a not so hot girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if you want some for company, go for it! who knows you might end up liking her anyway!
 

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Tell her to lose the Kabuki mask.
 

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some girls are covering up acne too-- and that is something you don't want to bring up.
 

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Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
 

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FoolsCause said:
Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My curse.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
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I'm an early riser.

I have woken up in morning and had to remind my self

1. I was drunk last night.

2. We met in a dark club.

3. She was covered in make up.

Yes, this beast is indeed the same "hottie" I had taken home last night.

JJ
 

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How are you setting dates up with girls you would be embarrassed to walk with?

You know what... spare me.
 

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I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels. A little makeup and dressy shoes are fine for formal occasions, but I much prefer women who are naturally beautiful and don't need to rely on makeup to create superficial beauty. As is, I've seen my girlfriend wear makeup three times in the three years we've been together, and two of those times were for Halloween.
 

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sca_p said:
I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels.
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Randallpink83 said:
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
Heels are definitely sexy and womanly. I Love women who love heels! :up:
 

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me too i do like my women naturally beautiful. but hey that's a tough one to find. almost all women wear make up. i actually like a woman to wear mascara and lipgloss. that's it!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
Yeah women tend to deteriorate through out the night.

If you want to see a woman at her true natural self ask her to go swimming with you at the local pool. All that chlorine will wipe away any hint of make up and also ruin any hair design that her hair dresser spend 2 hours to build. If she still looks pretty after she comes out of the water then she is a keeper!
 
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