"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girls with tooooo much make up!

tony-montana

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so i got a date in a couple of hours and like... the girl that i'm going with tends to over do it with make up. i'm talking about where you got the whole face and half the neck all white and then the rest of the body is a different skin color. it's freaky and disgusting and i'm thinking of telling her that if she does that i ain't going. i know that seems harsh but i will feel really fuking awkward walking around a girl with that sh!t on. what y'all think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I whole-heartedly agree!!!! This is a false persona!! Give me the real and let me decide!!!! I tell women - don't wear that chemical shyt on your face - I dictate and they follow!!!!
 

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Hmm call her up ahead of time,just tell her that you will be like 15-20 minutes late because of 'x and y' then ease it in the conversation somehow.
 

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i'd say, not to mention is on your first date! just be patient for a while and bring up the conversation of gals with too much make up on! point out someone and have a chat to her about how annoying that is, make sure not direct it at her!! infact say something good about het after! she'll realise!
 

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is it bad of me to not wanna go because she's not HOT HOT? she's not thin and not fat but if she was she'd be fine. should i just go anyway? cause i do wanna go out with someone for company. i just feel weird not walking around with a not so hot girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you want some for company, go for it! who knows you might end up liking her anyway!
 

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Tell her to lose the Kabuki mask.
 

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some girls are covering up acne too-- and that is something you don't want to bring up.
 

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Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
 

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Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My curse.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
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I'm an early riser.

I have woken up in morning and had to remind my self

1. I was drunk last night.

2. We met in a dark club.

3. She was covered in make up.

Yes, this beast is indeed the same "hottie" I had taken home last night.

JJ
 

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How are you setting dates up with girls you would be embarrassed to walk with?

You know what... spare me.
 

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I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels. A little makeup and dressy shoes are fine for formal occasions, but I much prefer women who are naturally beautiful and don't need to rely on makeup to create superficial beauty. As is, I've seen my girlfriend wear makeup three times in the three years we've been together, and two of those times were for Halloween.
 

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sca_p said:
I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels.
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Randallpink83 said:
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
Heels are definitely sexy and womanly. I Love women who love heels! :up:
 

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me too i do like my women naturally beautiful. but hey that's a tough one to find. almost all women wear make up. i actually like a woman to wear mascara and lipgloss. that's it!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
Yeah women tend to deteriorate through out the night.

If you want to see a woman at her true natural self ask her to go swimming with you at the local pool. All that chlorine will wipe away any hint of make up and also ruin any hair design that her hair dresser spend 2 hours to build. If she still looks pretty after she comes out of the water then she is a keeper!
 
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