"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls with tooooo much make up!

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so i got a date in a couple of hours and like... the girl that i'm going with tends to over do it with make up. i'm talking about where you got the whole face and half the neck all white and then the rest of the body is a different skin color. it's freaky and disgusting and i'm thinking of telling her that if she does that i ain't going. i know that seems harsh but i will feel really fuking awkward walking around a girl with that sh!t on. what y'all think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I whole-heartedly agree!!!! This is a false persona!! Give me the real and let me decide!!!! I tell women - don't wear that chemical shyt on your face - I dictate and they follow!!!!
 

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Hmm call her up ahead of time,just tell her that you will be like 15-20 minutes late because of 'x and y' then ease it in the conversation somehow.
 

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i'd say, not to mention is on your first date! just be patient for a while and bring up the conversation of gals with too much make up on! point out someone and have a chat to her about how annoying that is, make sure not direct it at her!! infact say something good about het after! she'll realise!
 

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is it bad of me to not wanna go because she's not HOT HOT? she's not thin and not fat but if she was she'd be fine. should i just go anyway? cause i do wanna go out with someone for company. i just feel weird not walking around with a not so hot girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you want some for company, go for it! who knows you might end up liking her anyway!
 

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Tell her to lose the Kabuki mask.
 

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some girls are covering up acne too-- and that is something you don't want to bring up.
 

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Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
 

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Have you seen those makeover shows? Some women look alot better with good makeup, which is why you want to catch them without any makeup at some point. Drop by her place unexpected in the morning or something like that to see if she's ugly without it.
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My curse.

Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
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I'm an early riser.

I have woken up in morning and had to remind my self

1. I was drunk last night.

2. We met in a dark club.

3. She was covered in make up.

Yes, this beast is indeed the same "hottie" I had taken home last night.

JJ
 

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How are you setting dates up with girls you would be embarrassed to walk with?

You know what... spare me.
 

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I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels. A little makeup and dressy shoes are fine for formal occasions, but I much prefer women who are naturally beautiful and don't need to rely on makeup to create superficial beauty. As is, I've seen my girlfriend wear makeup three times in the three years we've been together, and two of those times were for Halloween.
 

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sca_p said:
I've always refused to date any woman who wears makeup and/or high heels.
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Randallpink83 said:
High heels?? really?? high heels are sexy.. high heels make those legs look long and sexy. weird never heard a guy not liking the CFM shoes.
Heels are definitely sexy and womanly. I Love women who love heels! :up:
 

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me too i do like my women naturally beautiful. but hey that's a tough one to find. almost all women wear make up. i actually like a woman to wear mascara and lipgloss. that's it!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Easy test is to watch what a woman does after spending the night with you. If she makes it a habit of getting up before you and hanging out in your bathroom for an extended period of time in the morning it may be a hint that she's putting on the warpaint. Also check her pillow for an imprint of her face akin to the Shroud or Turin.
Yeah women tend to deteriorate through out the night.

If you want to see a woman at her true natural self ask her to go swimming with you at the local pool. All that chlorine will wipe away any hint of make up and also ruin any hair design that her hair dresser spend 2 hours to build. If she still looks pretty after she comes out of the water then she is a keeper!
 
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