"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls with headphones

silverfox

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Is it just me or do at least half the girls who look worth approcching seem to be plugged into iPods? On the bus, the train, just walking around...? This seems to be the case in the part of London I live in.

Anyone have any approaches for this scenario? How about cold approaches on public transport? I am very much an rAFC and following the shezzler's bootcamp ideas but still need all the help I can get.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BigMike

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I just get EC and smile. The interested ones take off an earplug usually.
 

SparkleMotion

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Yeah, I've noticed a large increase in the number of girls who walk around listening to their iPods inbetween classes. It's like everyone wants their life to be a movie, so they need a soundtrack in the background as they parade around campus.
 

Mr Spitfire

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I mouth the words "I love you." Not with sexy sly eyes but optimistic holding-breath sideways-looking and happy-face eyes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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diplomatic_lies

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Yell at her "I f*cked your mum last night", then when she takes off her headphones to clarify, say "Do you have the time on you?"
 
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