"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls with headphones

silverfox

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Is it just me or do at least half the girls who look worth approcching seem to be plugged into iPods? On the bus, the train, just walking around...? This seems to be the case in the part of London I live in.

Anyone have any approaches for this scenario? How about cold approaches on public transport? I am very much an rAFC and following the shezzler's bootcamp ideas but still need all the help I can get.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigMike

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I just get EC and smile. The interested ones take off an earplug usually.
 

SparkleMotion

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Yeah, I've noticed a large increase in the number of girls who walk around listening to their iPods inbetween classes. It's like everyone wants their life to be a movie, so they need a soundtrack in the background as they parade around campus.
 

Mr Spitfire

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I mouth the words "I love you." Not with sexy sly eyes but optimistic holding-breath sideways-looking and happy-face eyes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diplomatic_lies

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Yell at her "I f*cked your mum last night", then when she takes off her headphones to clarify, say "Do you have the time on you?"
 
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