Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok, so there is this girl (there always is), we are friends at the moment, but there is definitely room to escalate things. And she definitely had feelings for me (I wasn't a DJ back then) and probably still has feelings for me now.

Anyway, now she has a boyfriend. Is it still ok for me to ask her out, as friends. From which point I would plan to DJ her. I'm thinking movies (I know, it should be an action date, but we both want to see a movie coming out...)


Give me your thoughts!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EXACTLY same situation i'm having. I think though it should be fine as long as she has interest in you and is leading you on. Just be ready for her to pull the "I have a BF" line, but thats easy to beat. GL though.
 
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If she has a bf and is willing to go out alone with you, obviously there is a high IL there. High enough for her to risk losing her bf.
 
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Where I live pretty much every girl has a bf. You just gotta make her feel better then he ever has and she's yours!
 
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Would you mind alluding on how to beat the "I have a bf" line, Navy?

I really cant see her using that line, but if she does, I'll probably come back with "hey slow down, I didn't ask you to marry me" followed by 'dumb smirk look'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks Navy

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