Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok, so there is this girl (there always is), we are friends at the moment, but there is definitely room to escalate things. And she definitely had feelings for me (I wasn't a DJ back then) and probably still has feelings for me now.

Anyway, now she has a boyfriend. Is it still ok for me to ask her out, as friends. From which point I would plan to DJ her. I'm thinking movies (I know, it should be an action date, but we both want to see a movie coming out...)


Give me your thoughts!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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navyseal2101

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EXACTLY same situation i'm having. I think though it should be fine as long as she has interest in you and is leading you on. Just be ready for her to pull the "I have a BF" line, but thats easy to beat. GL though.
 
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If she has a bf and is willing to go out alone with you, obviously there is a high IL there. High enough for her to risk losing her bf.
 
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Where I live pretty much every girl has a bf. You just gotta make her feel better then he ever has and she's yours!
 
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Would you mind alluding on how to beat the "I have a bf" line, Navy?

I really cant see her using that line, but if she does, I'll probably come back with "hey slow down, I didn't ask you to marry me" followed by 'dumb smirk look'.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks Navy

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