"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sam3083

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Ok, so there is this girl (there always is), we are friends at the moment, but there is definitely room to escalate things. And she definitely had feelings for me (I wasn't a DJ back then) and probably still has feelings for me now.

Anyway, now she has a boyfriend. Is it still ok for me to ask her out, as friends. From which point I would plan to DJ her. I'm thinking movies (I know, it should be an action date, but we both want to see a movie coming out...)


Give me your thoughts!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EXACTLY same situation i'm having. I think though it should be fine as long as she has interest in you and is leading you on. Just be ready for her to pull the "I have a BF" line, but thats easy to beat. GL though.
 
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If she has a bf and is willing to go out alone with you, obviously there is a high IL there. High enough for her to risk losing her bf.
 
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Where I live pretty much every girl has a bf. You just gotta make her feel better then he ever has and she's yours!
 
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Would you mind alluding on how to beat the "I have a bf" line, Navy?

I really cant see her using that line, but if she does, I'll probably come back with "hey slow down, I didn't ask you to marry me" followed by 'dumb smirk look'.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks Navy

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