"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls who say they're sick of other women

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Have you ever had a case of a girl legitimately saying this or has it always been a coverup for "other girls can't stand her"? for example, a girl I'm with said something like this when she told me about her friends being really pissed off because she was with me instead of them (she'd just started going out with me too). She's also said, after us talking about some other girl who apparently knew who I was and was making up lies about me for some reason (maybe jealousy), that "all girls are disgusting like that, believe me I know, I think I should've been a guy, I can't stand girlfriends, etc etc.". Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's a red flag when a woman can't get along with other women. Probably has major competition anxiety.
 

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I've had them say all sorts of wacky stuff. The last one that caught me off guard said she hoped I die of cancer and some unsavory things about my (at the time) 1 year old because I couldn't give her hangover sex. Another time she wished for my plane to crash. Good times.

Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
What's her sandwich making skill like?
 

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@Payaso: she doesn't want any girl she knows to see me because she says they'll take me. She jokes about locking me away and it being a good thing that no one knows about me. She keeps bringing up an old plate I only brought up to make her think I was experienced and who is definitely inferior physically to her (she's the third girl I'm with), albeit in a joking manner, she doesn't seem able to let go of it. She knows what kind of girl I like and will check to see if I look at them when they're near. Definitely competition anxiety.

@Tits: Wow, really? my girl says things like that too but it's always as a joke/because I'm an @sshole. Real pearl you've got there. I'll get back to you later about her sandwich making skills... :p
 
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