"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls who say they're sick of other women

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Have you ever had a case of a girl legitimately saying this or has it always been a coverup for "other girls can't stand her"? for example, a girl I'm with said something like this when she told me about her friends being really pissed off because she was with me instead of them (she'd just started going out with me too). She's also said, after us talking about some other girl who apparently knew who I was and was making up lies about me for some reason (maybe jealousy), that "all girls are disgusting like that, believe me I know, I think I should've been a guy, I can't stand girlfriends, etc etc.". Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's a red flag when a woman can't get along with other women. Probably has major competition anxiety.
 

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I've had them say all sorts of wacky stuff. The last one that caught me off guard said she hoped I die of cancer and some unsavory things about my (at the time) 1 year old because I couldn't give her hangover sex. Another time she wished for my plane to crash. Good times.

Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
What's her sandwich making skill like?
 

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@Payaso: she doesn't want any girl she knows to see me because she says they'll take me. She jokes about locking me away and it being a good thing that no one knows about me. She keeps bringing up an old plate I only brought up to make her think I was experienced and who is definitely inferior physically to her (she's the third girl I'm with), albeit in a joking manner, she doesn't seem able to let go of it. She knows what kind of girl I like and will check to see if I look at them when they're near. Definitely competition anxiety.

@Tits: Wow, really? my girl says things like that too but it's always as a joke/because I'm an @sshole. Real pearl you've got there. I'll get back to you later about her sandwich making skills... :p
 
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