Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls who say they're sick of other women

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Have you ever had a case of a girl legitimately saying this or has it always been a coverup for "other girls can't stand her"? for example, a girl I'm with said something like this when she told me about her friends being really pissed off because she was with me instead of them (she'd just started going out with me too). She's also said, after us talking about some other girl who apparently knew who I was and was making up lies about me for some reason (maybe jealousy), that "all girls are disgusting like that, believe me I know, I think I should've been a guy, I can't stand girlfriends, etc etc.". Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's a red flag when a woman can't get along with other women. Probably has major competition anxiety.
 

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I've had them say all sorts of wacky stuff. The last one that caught me off guard said she hoped I die of cancer and some unsavory things about my (at the time) 1 year old because I couldn't give her hangover sex. Another time she wished for my plane to crash. Good times.

Yeah, she actually said the opposite of NAWALT to me.
What's her sandwich making skill like?
 

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@Payaso: she doesn't want any girl she knows to see me because she says they'll take me. She jokes about locking me away and it being a good thing that no one knows about me. She keeps bringing up an old plate I only brought up to make her think I was experienced and who is definitely inferior physically to her (she's the third girl I'm with), albeit in a joking manner, she doesn't seem able to let go of it. She knows what kind of girl I like and will check to see if I look at them when they're near. Definitely competition anxiety.

@Tits: Wow, really? my girl says things like that too but it's always as a joke/because I'm an @sshole. Real pearl you've got there. I'll get back to you later about her sandwich making skills... :p
 
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