"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls who don't give you crap and behave well.

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What do you do about girls who don't try to walk over you and just respect you without a SINGLE attempt to downgrade you.

Like...if she is not giving you crap, shouldn't you be respectful just as much and not give her crap?

Like, one of the DJ things is to walk away if she is giving you crap, but what if she doesn't...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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then no need to walk away, you should always respect girls but also respect yourself. if she gives u crap u walk away.. if not then u treat her well, and u shouldnt reward for her good behaviour because u EXPECT good behaviour,
 
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Well, there is always some crap in any kind of relationship... What matters is to decide how much will be too much for you... then you walk away. Not an easy line to draw sometimes.
 
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Babnik said:
What do you do about girls who don't try to walk over you and just respect you without a SINGLE attempt to downgrade you.

Like...if she is not giving you crap, shouldn't you be respectful just as much and not give her crap?

Like, one of the DJ things is to walk away if she is giving you crap, but what if she doesn't...
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Hold on to them.
And treat them like every other girl. And the way you should treat every girl as if they were in third grade.

I always respect my girls. IF your girl isn't worthy of respect then you aren't worthy of respect by association.
 
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This girl in one of my classes.... to all guys she seems rude and like disses them but with me she is HIGHLY respectful. I don't understand this. Neither of the guys ever pays attention to her...so everyone acted the same. She did ask me out though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's a sad state we're in if we're so focused on women playing head games that we have no idea what to when a good one crosses our path. This isn't anything against you Babnik, it's more about the information that's being propagated.
 
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you treat her right, respect her and respect her thoughts, but dont be her door mat,
its hard to explain becuase you are basicly asking "how to act in a relationship"

just do your own thing and treat your girl right, just because she treated u the best from out of all the girls doesnt mean u should treat her EXTRA Nice by giving her rides ALL the time and letitng her use u.. NO
you expect her to be good, you expect NO games, U expect NO disrespect. but girls make mistakes just as guys do, it all depends on how much u can take.. if she steps out of line, tell her nicely dont do it again. if she does it again, u give her the slience treatment... and there shouldnt be a 3rd time, if there is u walk away, quit wasting your time.

guys always get mixed up thinking "oh i'll never find a girl like her again" NO, you will, U WILL, never think like this, all girl are the same. they all have the ability and choices to cheat, they all have puzzies, they all sit down when they pee. you treat her how you wanna be treated. with respect, and when i mean respect, you give her space when she wants it. take her out to a nice place once a while. suprise her, be spontanous to her, surprise her.. GIVE HER FEELINGS. thats all she wants from you. is to experience feelings!!! if she wants a girls night out. respect that. you have guys night out too

its all about balance in the relationship it shouldnt be 10/90 or 30/70
should be close to 45/55 thats how close it should be. you should always have the lead and be the domintion one in the relationship but dont boss her around. give her freedom too, she aint your dog.
but rememebr, you guys , are the strongest one in the relationship. and the strongest ones in a LTR are the ones who need the other person the LEAST> which leads us with the ability to WALK AWAY
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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...its all about balance in the relationship it shouldnt be 10/90 or 30/70
should be close to 45/55 thats how close it should be. you should always have the lead and be the domintion one in the relationship but dont boss her around. give her freedom too, she aint your dog.
but rememebr, you guys , are the strongest one in the relationship. and the strongest ones in a LTR are the ones who need the other person the LEAST> which leads us with the ability to WALK AWAY
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So what if sex is all that's wanted?
 
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So what if sex is all that's wanted?
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then you shouldnt be in the LTR in the first place, should be a fuk buddie relationship

a LTR without companionship, and other valuable traits AINT a LTR. and it defintly wont last long, either one or BOTH of the members will lose interest fast and lead into low interest which that leads to cheating, leaving, fights, less or NO sex.
 
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then you shouldnt be in the LTR in the first place, should be a fuk buddie relationship...
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He's not in a relationship with her. He just wants sex. Who brought up LTRs anyway?
 
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He's not in a relationship with her. He just wants sex. Who brought up LTRs anyway?
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oh **** my bad, didnt read it quite well, well my opinion is that you got nothing to worry about, if u want just sex, get an evening to gether, get her comfortable and move in, if shes putitng enough resistance then back off, respect her space, not all girls are sluts, but theres no difference, if she treats u right then u dont need to walk away.

its kinda like asking "my car doenst break down, how should i drive it"
 
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