Girls who don't give you crap and behave well.

[Babnik]

What do you do about girls who don't try to walk over you and just respect you without a SINGLE attempt to downgrade you.

Like...if she is not giving you crap, shouldn't you be respectful just as much and not give her crap?

Like, one of the DJ things is to walk away if she is giving you crap, but what if she doesn't...

 

[sexy_kuta]

then no need to walk away, you should always respect girls but also respect yourself. if she gives u crap u walk away.. if not then u treat her well, and u shouldnt reward for her good behaviour because u EXPECT good behaviour,

 

[Ramon04]

Well, there is always some crap in any kind of relationship... What matters is to decide how much will be too much for you... then you walk away. Not an easy line to draw sometimes.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

What do you do about girls who don't try to walk over you and just respect you without a SINGLE attempt to downgrade you.

Like...if she is not giving you crap, shouldn't you be respectful just as much and not give her crap?

Like, one of the DJ things is to walk away if she is giving you crap, but what if she doesn't...

Hold on to them.
And treat them like every other girl. And the way you should treat every girl as if they were in third grade.

I always respect my girls. IF your girl isn't worthy of respect then you aren't worthy of respect by association.

 

[Babnik]

This girl in one of my classes.... to all guys she seems rude and like disses them but with me she is HIGHLY respectful. I don't understand this. Neither of the guys ever pays attention to her...so everyone acted the same. She did ask me out though.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's a sad state we're in if we're so focused on women playing head games that we have no idea what to when a good one crosses our path. This isn't anything against you Babnik, it's more about the information that's being propagated.

 

[Babnik]

So...what do you do then?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

So...what do you do then?

It depends on what you want from them.

 

[Babnik]

It depends on what you want from them.

Sex.

 

[sexy_kuta]

you treat her right, respect her and respect her thoughts, but dont be her door mat,
its hard to explain becuase you are basicly asking "how to act in a relationship"

just do your own thing and treat your girl right, just because she treated u the best from out of all the girls doesnt mean u should treat her EXTRA Nice by giving her rides ALL the time and letitng her use u.. NO
you expect her to be good, you expect NO games, U expect NO disrespect. but girls make mistakes just as guys do, it all depends on how much u can take.. if she steps out of line, tell her nicely dont do it again. if she does it again, u give her the slience treatment... and there shouldnt be a 3rd time, if there is u walk away, quit wasting your time.

guys always get mixed up thinking "oh i'll never find a girl like her again" NO, you will, U WILL, never think like this, all girl are the same. they all have the ability and choices to cheat, they all have puzzies, they all sit down when they pee. you treat her how you wanna be treated. with respect, and when i mean respect, you give her space when she wants it. take her out to a nice place once a while. suprise her, be spontanous to her, surprise her.. GIVE HER FEELINGS. thats all she wants from you. is to experience feelings!!! if she wants a girls night out. respect that. you have guys night out too

its all about balance in the relationship it shouldnt be 10/90 or 30/70
should be close to 45/55 thats how close it should be. you should always have the lead and be the domintion one in the relationship but dont boss her around. give her freedom too, she aint your dog.
but rememebr, you guys , are the strongest one in the relationship. and the strongest ones in a LTR are the ones who need the other person the LEAST> which leads us with the ability to WALK AWAY

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...its all about balance in the relationship it shouldnt be 10/90 or 30/70
should be close to 45/55 thats how close it should be. you should always have the lead and be the domintion one in the relationship but dont boss her around. give her freedom too, she aint your dog.
but rememebr, you guys , are the strongest one in the relationship. and the strongest ones in a LTR are the ones who need the other person the LEAST> which leads us with the ability to WALK AWAY

So what if sex is all that's wanted?

 

[sexy_kuta]

So what if sex is all that's wanted?

then you shouldnt be in the LTR in the first place, should be a fuk buddie relationship

a LTR without companionship, and other valuable traits AINT a LTR. and it defintly wont last long, either one or BOTH of the members will lose interest fast and lead into low interest which that leads to cheating, leaving, fights, less or NO sex.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

then you shouldnt be in the LTR in the first place, should be a fuk buddie relationship...

He's not in a relationship with her. He just wants sex. Who brought up LTRs anyway?

 

[sexy_kuta]

He's not in a relationship with her. He just wants sex. Who brought up LTRs anyway?

oh **** my bad, didnt read it quite well, well my opinion is that you got nothing to worry about, if u want just sex, get an evening to gether, get her comfortable and move in, if shes putitng enough resistance then back off, respect her space, not all girls are sluts, but theres no difference, if she treats u right then u dont need to walk away.

its kinda like asking "my car doenst break down, how should i drive it"