"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls who are into instruments

legolas

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I saw this girl in the train passing by today who had a large viola case on her shoulders. My first impression was that she seemed like a decent girl. I also know this girl who plays guitar for fun (ie. not professionally) and she is one of the most decent people I know. I can't imagine any party/crazy type chicks who'd be into instruments so I'm wondering wht the correlation would be between girls who play some kind of instrument (string, air, or even drums) and their level of decency and likedness of a well balanced LTR. Anyone has any experiences with this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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OrioleMagic said:
Ask her if she plays the skin flute. :crackup:
lol don't forget the bagpipe.

I know women who play music and were high on drugs and drink heavily so there is no correlation.

There is more correlation if they are into sport and are really dedicated to it.

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"One time, at band camp..." :crackup:

But seriously, I don't know if there is a connection. But it's potentially good news, since she's got a hobby (or career) that she enjoys enough to pursue, and she's not just a bump on a log.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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