"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls who are into instruments

legolas

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I saw this girl in the train passing by today who had a large viola case on her shoulders. My first impression was that she seemed like a decent girl. I also know this girl who plays guitar for fun (ie. not professionally) and she is one of the most decent people I know. I can't imagine any party/crazy type chicks who'd be into instruments so I'm wondering wht the correlation would be between girls who play some kind of instrument (string, air, or even drums) and their level of decency and likedness of a well balanced LTR. Anyone has any experiences with this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OrioleMagic said:
Ask her if she plays the skin flute. :crackup:
lol don't forget the bagpipe.

I know women who play music and were high on drugs and drink heavily so there is no correlation.

There is more correlation if they are into sport and are really dedicated to it.

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"One time, at band camp..." :crackup:

But seriously, I don't know if there is a connection. But it's potentially good news, since she's got a hobby (or career) that she enjoys enough to pursue, and she's not just a bump on a log.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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