"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girls who are into instruments

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I saw this girl in the train passing by today who had a large viola case on her shoulders. My first impression was that she seemed like a decent girl. I also know this girl who plays guitar for fun (ie. not professionally) and she is one of the most decent people I know. I can't imagine any party/crazy type chicks who'd be into instruments so I'm wondering wht the correlation would be between girls who play some kind of instrument (string, air, or even drums) and their level of decency and likedness of a well balanced LTR. Anyone has any experiences with this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OrioleMagic said:
Ask her if she plays the skin flute. :crackup:
lol don't forget the bagpipe.

I know women who play music and were high on drugs and drink heavily so there is no correlation.

There is more correlation if they are into sport and are really dedicated to it.

DJD
 

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"One time, at band camp..." :crackup:

But seriously, I don't know if there is a connection. But it's potentially good news, since she's got a hobby (or career) that she enjoys enough to pursue, and she's not just a bump on a log.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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