"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls want a dangerous guy???

DJ_in_making

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I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it means they want you to kill for them....... :rolleyes: :crackup:.
 

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Dangerous is a GREAT way to describe the man they want... if you know what it REALLY means. Its a summation of a few principals of attraction:

-Danger is something that happens during an adventure. Adventures are new experiences. The adrenaline relase during new, and hazerdous things is FUN. So girls want a FUN guy who is willing to TRY DIFFERENT THINGS
-Danger is stressful and can be painful. Girls want a tough, mentally stable guy
-To survive danger, a man needs to be brave. Girls want a confident guy

Get the picture? You dont need to treck the amazon with them... but you should be able to tell them a story about a scuffle at a party over something funny or a car race through traffic late at night.
 

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In a nutshell:

Yes, what they said.


And don't go running around with rusty scissors or wielding a large knife carelessly, however much enjoyment it may bring.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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exactly when you go on a date never do the saem thiing twice.....NEVER EVER EVER


also dont ever tell them what your doing untill you do it....so if you plan to go minigolfing then head to the putput w/o telling them what they are doing...make sure you got aa coat tho b/c it might be cold and she dosent know what your doing so she cant dress for the occasion....but she likes that.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
I could be classified as a "dangerous" guy. I'm well known for my ability to jack food from the cafeteria or vending machines. I often have girls come up to me and ask me to steal food for them. After the first couple times I turn them down. The usual response I give them is, "Well, let's see. I've put my neck on the line a couple times for you (In a joking tone) and how have you repaid me? You didn't. So, find somebody else, babe." They usually sit there and plead for a couple seconds. I just tell them that once they start doing stuff for me, then I'll be a gentlemen and return the favor. The stealing sort of gives the "bad boy" impression.

Also, fast cars attract chicks. Oh lord do they attract chicks. Just remember that.

Another one, I get tired of school a lot, and skip classes. The "rebelious" nature of that is sort of a bad boy thing as well. Girls notice. Don't make a big deal about it, and besides, this is a mistake, especially if you get caught. It'll just lead to worse habits. Trust me.

Yet another 'dangerous' trait I have, my friends and I are always going out on weekends looking for trouble. Fights specifically. Every now and then we'll go tag someplace or something.


Basically, anything thats a bit on the illegal side, is 'dangerous'. It shows that you've got a wild side, you push the envelope and aren't afraid of what might happen. Confidence in other words. Also, don't over do it. Don't be some big wannabe badass, it'll seem fake and overcooked. Most of the time I joke around, go to class, pay for my.....well, at least i go to class and joke around. A proper balance of 'Good' and 'Bad' will do wonders for you. Those are just a couple ideas.

EDIT*** Not all dangers have to be illegal. If you want the legal approach, get into extreme sports. Those are sweet as hell, and dangerous. Also, risk taking, such as riding your bike down a steep as phuck/rocky hill = dangerous, yet thrilling.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
Adventurous and mysterious....
 
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Originally posted by Used
exactly when you go on a date never do the saem thiing twice.....NEVER EVER EVER
Then you would fail at being unpredictable:D. When she least expects it take her on a date the same as the last one, shell start to expect different dates all the time otherwise.
 

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When i used to deal dope months ago, Ladies started to chat with me more often, And when they bought from me i got to meet their hot friends. But ofcourse, that proffesion is no good so i stopped.

But, see how you get a lot of women doing something dangerous?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Smileyz
When i used to deal dope months ago, Ladies started to chat with me more often, And when they bought from me i got to meet their hot friends. But ofcourse, that proffesion is no good so i stopped.

But, see how you get a lot of women doing something dangerous?
hah :rolleyes:
 
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