DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could be classified as a "dangerous" guy. I'm well known for my ability to jack food from the cafeteria or vending machines. I often have girls come up to me and ask me to steal food for them. After the first couple times I turn them down. The usual response I give them is, "Well, let's see. I've put my neck on the line a couple times for you (In a joking tone) and how have you repaid me? You didn't. So, find somebody else, babe." They usually sit there and plead for a couple seconds. I just tell them that once they start doing stuff for me, then I'll be a gentlemen and return the favor. The stealing sort of gives the "bad boy" impression.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
Adventurous and mysterious....Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
Then you would fail at being unpredictableOriginally posted by Used
exactly when you go on a date never do the saem thiing twice.....NEVER EVER EVER
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
hahOriginally posted by Smileyz
When i used to deal dope months ago, Ladies started to chat with me more often, And when they bought from me i got to meet their hot friends. But ofcourse, that proffesion is no good so i stopped.
But, see how you get a lot of women doing something dangerous?