DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could be classified as a "dangerous" guy. I'm well known for my ability to jack food from the cafeteria or vending machines. I often have girls come up to me and ask me to steal food for them. After the first couple times I turn them down. The usual response I give them is, "Well, let's see. I've put my neck on the line a couple times for you (In a joking tone) and how have you repaid me? You didn't. So, find somebody else, babe." They usually sit there and plead for a couple seconds. I just tell them that once they start doing stuff for me, then I'll be a gentlemen and return the favor. The stealing sort of gives the "bad boy" impression.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
Adventurous and mysterious....Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I constantly hear girls say they want "dangerous" men. But what does that mean? Should I walk around juggling knives, or spitting fire? I mean... what exactly do they mean by that?
Then you would fail at being unpredictableOriginally posted by Used
exactly when you go on a date never do the saem thiing twice.....NEVER EVER EVER
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
hahOriginally posted by Smileyz
When i used to deal dope months ago, Ladies started to chat with me more often, And when they bought from me i got to meet their hot friends. But ofcourse, that proffesion is no good so i stopped.
But, see how you get a lot of women doing something dangerous?