ive posted many tings and have taken the advice and used it. but today i thought i was doin good had her sittin on my and she was makin comments like your comfy and stuff i had my hand around her stomach and we were chillin like that talkin. she doesnt reject me when i touch her or anything. well later this guy she has been hangin with and told me that they were friends and she wasnt lookin for a relationship. well anyway he came in and i saw them kiss and **** and now she is sayin they are basically together. all this work ive put in and now i dont know if i should keep it up or stop. i mean i like this girl but not sure if she is worth any more of my time. any and all advice is helpful im a amatuer when it comes to girls
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
girls trouble once again...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Master Don Juan
The girl was simply just playing the field. You can't blame her. Isn't that what we ALL are doing? You have two choices here. Next her and move on, or keep doing what you're doing and try to increase her interest level. However if you do the later you must act completely unreactive to her bull****. She said "basically together," I wouldn't consider it game over until they became official. In my personal oppinion, she just sounds like a slutty attention *****. It's probably in your best interest to next her.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
i dont know i might try again with her just not care that she is seein sum1 and if she gets more interested make a move. and i dont think she is a ***** cuz she has been in 2 relationships 1 for like 3 years then another for 5. but who knows maybe she is.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.