ive posted many tings and have taken the advice and used it. but today i thought i was doin good had her sittin on my and she was makin comments like your comfy and stuff i had my hand around her stomach and we were chillin like that talkin. she doesnt reject me when i touch her or anything. well later this guy she has been hangin with and told me that they were friends and she wasnt lookin for a relationship. well anyway he came in and i saw them kiss and **** and now she is sayin they are basically together. all this work ive put in and now i dont know if i should keep it up or stop. i mean i like this girl but not sure if she is worth any more of my time. any and all advice is helpful im a amatuer when it comes to girls
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
girls trouble once again...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Master Don Juan
The girl was simply just playing the field. You can't blame her. Isn't that what we ALL are doing? You have two choices here. Next her and move on, or keep doing what you're doing and try to increase her interest level. However if you do the later you must act completely unreactive to her bull****. She said "basically together," I wouldn't consider it game over until they became official. In my personal oppinion, she just sounds like a slutty attention *****. It's probably in your best interest to next her.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
i dont know i might try again with her just not care that she is seein sum1 and if she gets more interested make a move. and i dont think she is a ***** cuz she has been in 2 relationships 1 for like 3 years then another for 5. but who knows maybe she is.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.