ive posted many tings and have taken the advice and used it. but today i thought i was doin good had her sittin on my and she was makin comments like your comfy and stuff i had my hand around her stomach and we were chillin like that talkin. she doesnt reject me when i touch her or anything. well later this guy she has been hangin with and told me that they were friends and she wasnt lookin for a relationship. well anyway he came in and i saw them kiss and **** and now she is sayin they are basically together. all this work ive put in and now i dont know if i should keep it up or stop. i mean i like this girl but not sure if she is worth any more of my time. any and all advice is helpful im a amatuer when it comes to girls
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The girl was simply just playing the field. You can't blame her. Isn't that what we ALL are doing? You have two choices here. Next her and move on, or keep doing what you're doing and try to increase her interest level. However if you do the later you must act completely unreactive to her bull****. She said "basically together," I wouldn't consider it game over until they became official. In my personal oppinion, she just sounds like a slutty attention *****. It's probably in your best interest to next her.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
Don't worry too much about it either. You had her. She just lost interest for whatever reason, or she had more interest in that other guy for whatever reason. Just don't take it to heart and move on and keep spinning those plates bro.
i dont know i might try again with her just not care that she is seein sum1 and if she gets more interested make a move. and i dont think she is a ***** cuz she has been in 2 relationships 1 for like 3 years then another for 5. but who knows maybe she is.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.