Kotaix
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I wouldn't mind hearing the details as to why you do.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girls that jump from fling to fling?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You’re right. We don’t live in a vacuum. We emanate out and influence the world. This is “cause”. Are all people “cause”? Not even close. We call them victims. This is called “effect”.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
Kotaix
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What you're describing sounds like a slightly Machiavellian interpretation of Zen.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
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And yet a woman’s reality overrides a man’s, making him a pvssy. What she believes eminates and men kneel to the pvssy. It shows in her attitude and socially empowered ideas from birth. She is a henid. She molds.
She influences the physical universe with or without government.
Yet men follow and lament on the scarcity of pvssy and how horrible women are.
Men are demigods. What they believe becomes reality in the physical universe.
The education and beliefs of some men won’t allow this into their thinking. Thus they are the effect of the physical universe. Henids. Women.