Kotaix
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I wouldn't mind hearing the details as to why you do.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girls that jump from fling to fling?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You’re right. We don’t live in a vacuum. We emanate out and influence the world. This is “cause”. Are all people “cause”? Not even close. We call them victims. This is called “effect”.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
Kotaix
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What you're describing sounds like a slightly Machiavellian interpretation of Zen.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
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And yet a woman’s reality overrides a man’s, making him a pvssy. What she believes eminates and men kneel to the pvssy. It shows in her attitude and socially empowered ideas from birth. She is a henid. She molds.
She influences the physical universe with or without government.
Yet men follow and lament on the scarcity of pvssy and how horrible women are.
Men are demigods. What they believe becomes reality in the physical universe.
The education and beliefs of some men won’t allow this into their thinking. Thus they are the effect of the physical universe. Henids. Women.