Kotaix
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I wouldn't mind hearing the details as to why you do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girls that jump from fling to fling?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You’re right. We don’t live in a vacuum. We emanate out and influence the world. This is “cause”. Are all people “cause”? Not even close. We call them victims. This is called “effect”.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
To be the effect of that outside reality is very low end.
You are one or the other. I don’t expect others to agree. But then I don’t concern myself with any of that.
Newtonian physics is wrong. Human beings are not a fixed condition. Changes his mind? Changes reality.
Kotaix
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What you're describing sounds like a slightly Machiavellian interpretation of Zen.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
I do think you're pretty spot on regarding the mindset. But I think it's the individual's perception of reality that changes, and not reality itself. Which, for the individual, is the same thing.
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And yet a woman’s reality overrides a man’s, making him a pvssy. What she believes eminates and men kneel to the pvssy. It shows in her attitude and socially empowered ideas from birth. She is a henid. She molds.
She influences the physical universe with or without government.
Yet men follow and lament on the scarcity of pvssy and how horrible women are.
Men are demigods. What they believe becomes reality in the physical universe.
The education and beliefs of some men won’t allow this into their thinking. Thus they are the effect of the physical universe. Henids. Women.