"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girls that genuenly want a nice guy?
- Thread starter Vovchandr
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Keep in mind
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Do you respect women more than men?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Thats showing respect. I do that too. That doesnt mean I actually have respect.
You don't even know me....and if you'd read again, you'd understand me more.
You said I didn't know what a real man was. I proved you wrong for that.
Now, read what I've said through out this thread again, and I'll prove you wrong again.
It's funny how you could ignorantly criticize and judge me as a person without knowing me and on top of that, try to cover up for your mistake.
A real man knows how to apologize when necessary, too.
I think it's necessary....if you don't, then you'd only be contradicting yourself.
I thought you were a "good man"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you defined some qualities of a man. Good job I respect you for that.
Can you define a woman?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
You defined a man. Now define a woman. The thing you claim to actually respect automatically.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you left off
beautiful
nurturing
caring
considerate
loving
submissive
active
talented
sincere
honest
emotional
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
men or women.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
a "real" woman? I dont know... Maybe it has to do with a real woman being feminine. Ive seen plenty of hormone taking bearded dykes that fit your description.
Because one gender is insecure about their inferiority.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you can be drafted into the army and sent to die for the defense of women that dont have to fight... BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN.
You are better than they are. Its their job to love you for being so superior to them.
when women have to do what men have to do then I will respect them equally.
Great post!
It reminds me of that biitch Debra Lefarve who molested that 14 year old and got off scott free. NO JAIL TIME.
If that was a man he would be rotting under the jail. Women want to complain about their rights and pretend to be equal, but dont want the responsibilty that comes with it!
If more men thought like you this world would be a much better place!
Sayno'
Just as there are things men do that women don't, there are also things women do that men don't. Men don't carry a child and give birth. Men don't menstruate. Although men can also be victims of domestic assault and rape...it happens to women a lot more.
Both men and women have their fair share of things to deal with in life...and even though they are different things it doesn't make any gender more important, valuable or worthy of respect than the other.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Do you respect men or women?
Quid pro quo. Respect is earnt. Don't go spitting respect until its deserved..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.