"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girls that genuenly want a nice guy?
- Thread starter Vovchandr
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Keep in mind
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Do you respect women more than men?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Thats showing respect. I do that too. That doesnt mean I actually have respect.
You don't even know me....and if you'd read again, you'd understand me more.
You said I didn't know what a real man was. I proved you wrong for that.
Now, read what I've said through out this thread again, and I'll prove you wrong again.
It's funny how you could ignorantly criticize and judge me as a person without knowing me and on top of that, try to cover up for your mistake.
A real man knows how to apologize when necessary, too.
I think it's necessary....if you don't, then you'd only be contradicting yourself.
I thought you were a "good man"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you defined some qualities of a man. Good job I respect you for that.
Can you define a woman?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
You defined a man. Now define a woman. The thing you claim to actually respect automatically.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you left off
beautiful
nurturing
caring
considerate
loving
submissive
active
talented
sincere
honest
emotional
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
men or women.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
a "real" woman? I dont know... Maybe it has to do with a real woman being feminine. Ive seen plenty of hormone taking bearded dykes that fit your description.
Because one gender is insecure about their inferiority.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you can be drafted into the army and sent to die for the defense of women that dont have to fight... BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN.
You are better than they are. Its their job to love you for being so superior to them.
when women have to do what men have to do then I will respect them equally.
Great post!
It reminds me of that biitch Debra Lefarve who molested that 14 year old and got off scott free. NO JAIL TIME.
If that was a man he would be rotting under the jail. Women want to complain about their rights and pretend to be equal, but dont want the responsibilty that comes with it!
If more men thought like you this world would be a much better place!
Sayno'
Just as there are things men do that women don't, there are also things women do that men don't. Men don't carry a child and give birth. Men don't menstruate. Although men can also be victims of domestic assault and rape...it happens to women a lot more.
Both men and women have their fair share of things to deal with in life...and even though they are different things it doesn't make any gender more important, valuable or worthy of respect than the other.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Do you respect men or women?
Quid pro quo. Respect is earnt. Don't go spitting respect until its deserved..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.