"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls that genuenly want a nice guy?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Keep in mind
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Do you respect women more than men?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
Thats showing respect. I do that too. That doesnt mean I actually have respect.
You don't even know me....and if you'd read again, you'd understand me more.
You said I didn't know what a real man was. I proved you wrong for that.
Now, read what I've said through out this thread again, and I'll prove you wrong again.
It's funny how you could ignorantly criticize and judge me as a person without knowing me and on top of that, try to cover up for your mistake.
A real man knows how to apologize when necessary, too.
I think it's necessary....if you don't, then you'd only be contradicting yourself.
I thought you were a "good man"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you defined some qualities of a man. Good job I respect you for that.
Can you define a woman?
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
You defined a man. Now define a woman. The thing you claim to actually respect automatically.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you left off
beautiful
nurturing
caring
considerate
loving
submissive
active
talented
sincere
honest
emotional
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
men or women.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
a "real" woman? I dont know... Maybe it has to do with a real woman being feminine. Ive seen plenty of hormone taking bearded dykes that fit your description.
Because one gender is insecure about their inferiority.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
you can be drafted into the army and sent to die for the defense of women that dont have to fight... BECAUSE THEY ARE WOMEN.
You are better than they are. Its their job to love you for being so superior to them.
when women have to do what men have to do then I will respect them equally.
Great post!
It reminds me of that biitch Debra Lefarve who molested that 14 year old and got off scott free. NO JAIL TIME.
If that was a man he would be rotting under the jail. Women want to complain about their rights and pretend to be equal, but dont want the responsibilty that comes with it!
If more men thought like you this world would be a much better place!
Sayno'
Just as there are things men do that women don't, there are also things women do that men don't. Men don't carry a child and give birth. Men don't menstruate. Although men can also be victims of domestic assault and rape...it happens to women a lot more.
Both men and women have their fair share of things to deal with in life...and even though they are different things it doesn't make any gender more important, valuable or worthy of respect than the other.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Do you respect men or women?
Quid pro quo. Respect is earnt. Don't go spitting respect until its deserved..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.