“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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girls that flirt heavily and want to hang out but know you're taken

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Any productive use of taking these girls up on hanging out? Aside from the ego boost of them flirting with you? Cause I've started agreeing to these encounters to see what it's like.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SandHawk

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Just run your regular game on them, as if they're single. 6 weeks ago, I hung out with a girl from dancing (who had a boyfriend) at my place and watched Pan's Labyrinth with her. Last night, just like 6 weeks ago, I blew my yoghurt in her mouth.

When they flirt heavily, interpret it as a signal, just escalate normal. Just run a few extra of those kiss tests. Like the C movement over face to remove hair, bringing your lips really close.
 

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Obviously you're not too taken if you're up for hanging out with them.
 

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handle said:
Any productive use of taking these girls up on hanging out?
So you want to take these girls up on their offers to hang out?

What for?

It's just like you said,this is just her ego at play. What I'd like to know is....


Where were these girls when you were still single/available? Were they "flirting heavily" with you then,or did they just show up out of the blue when they learned you had expressed an interest in someone else?



If they were flirting with you back when you weren't dating anyone,then you might have a chance with them,but if they just recently started because you recently began seeing someone else,then they don't want you.


They just want you to want them.




handle said:
Cause I've started agreeing to these encounters to see what it's like.
Well be careful,dude. Because if all they want is just your attention,once they have it,they may end up making a complete FOOL out of you.



They'll keep getting you to "hang out" with them until your relationship with the other girl ends through making her angry or whatever,then the instant you officially become single,they'll be out the door.



On the bright side though,there is a way to "hang out" with these girls while NOT boosting their egos,but if you're already seeing someone,then I guess it really doesn't matter.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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terran2k

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don't do it dude if you're in a committed relationship, I speak from experience. just don't do it.
 

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Hey, as for an update, started chilling with some of these girls but keeping it pretty light, letting them know I have a girlfriend, etc...

Igetit!, you make a good point, but all of the ones I've hung out with so far either have been into me since before I started the LTR or weren't aware of my LTR when they showed interest. I definitely get what you're saying though, and I'll watch for that. For me it's a way of keeping myself on my toes because I want to make sure my game's tight and I don't fall into that whole trap of not having branches to swing off of if something goes wrong. It's not even that much about branches, more about making sure I still know how to flirt, chat, etc.
 

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Speaking from experience, these gals just don't care. It does not matter to them that you are married, in a relationship or single. Igetit! is right. They do it to inflate their egos, and truly don't want you. They just want you to want them. Self serving evil little creatures.
 

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I'm in a serious relationship myself, and I've had to deal with my fair share of "distractions." My advice to you: as long as there is no way your girlfriend will find out what you do w/ these chicks, you're in the clear. Usually for me that's when i m in a different area code, with tourist chicks or random girls i meet at a bar/club.

Also, I don't just "hang out" with chicks. I'm with them cuz i want to get some tail. Ask yourself if this is what you want, because this is where the road you're taking is leading to.
 
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