girls that flirt heavily and want to hang out but know you're taken

[handle]

Any productive use of taking these girls up on hanging out? Aside from the ego boost of them flirting with you? Cause I've started agreeing to these encounters to see what it's like.

 

[SandHawk]

Just run your regular game on them, as if they're single. 6 weeks ago, I hung out with a girl from dancing (who had a boyfriend) at my place and watched Pan's Labyrinth with her. Last night, just like 6 weeks ago, I blew my yoghurt in her mouth.

When they flirt heavily, interpret it as a signal, just escalate normal. Just run a few extra of those kiss tests. Like the C movement over face to remove hair, bringing your lips really close.

 

[zekko]

Obviously you're not too taken if you're up for hanging out with them.

 

[Igetit!]

Any productive use of taking these girls up on hanging out?

So you want to take these girls up on their offers to hang out?

What for?

It's just like you said,this is just her ego at play. What I'd like to know is....


Where were these girls when you were still single/available? Were they "flirting heavily" with you then,or did they just show up out of the blue when they learned you had expressed an interest in someone else?



If they were flirting with you back when you weren't dating anyone,then you might have a chance with them,but if they just recently started because you recently began seeing someone else,then they don't want you.


They just want you to want them.

Cause I've started agreeing to these encounters to see what it's like.

Well be careful,dude. Because if all they want is just your attention,once they have it,they may end up making a complete FOOL out of you.



They'll keep getting you to "hang out" with them until your relationship with the other girl ends through making her angry or whatever,then the instant you officially become single,they'll be out the door.



On the bright side though,there is a way to "hang out" with these girls while NOT boosting their egos,but if you're already seeing someone,then I guess it really doesn't matter.

 

[Captain]

They are your options for when something goes wrong with your girlfriend, and if she knows you have more girls lined up if she screws up, she'll toe the line.

 

[terran2k]

don't do it dude if you're in a committed relationship, I speak from experience. just don't do it.

 

[handle]

Hey, as for an update, started chilling with some of these girls but keeping it pretty light, letting them know I have a girlfriend, etc...

Igetit!, you make a good point, but all of the ones I've hung out with so far either have been into me since before I started the LTR or weren't aware of my LTR when they showed interest. I definitely get what you're saying though, and I'll watch for that. For me it's a way of keeping myself on my toes because I want to make sure my game's tight and I don't fall into that whole trap of not having branches to swing off of if something goes wrong. It's not even that much about branches, more about making sure I still know how to flirt, chat, etc.

 

[5string]

Speaking from experience, these gals just don't care. It does not matter to them that you are married, in a relationship or single. Igetit! is right. They do it to inflate their egos, and truly don't want you. They just want you to want them. Self serving evil little creatures.

 

[drak_ool]

I'm in a serious relationship myself, and I've had to deal with my fair share of "distractions." My advice to you: as long as there is no way your girlfriend will find out what you do w/ these chicks, you're in the clear. Usually for me that's when i m in a different area code, with tourist chicks or random girls i meet at a bar/club.

Also, I don't just "hang out" with chicks. I'm with them cuz i want to get some tail. Ask yourself if this is what you want, because this is where the road you're taking is leading to.