"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls that aren't on dating sites

mr. kennedy

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Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HedoRick

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I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
 

Zhanie

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HedoRick said:
I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
Is that because they're like Velcro? I have a friend who was considering it and I told her they were just booty calls....lol, but she's desperate at this point to find the perfect man ... which we all know doesn't really exist... no perfect woman either. Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!
 
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Not just on dating sites, but girls that facebook, badoo and use other social networks daily are a red flag to me. They are usually hypergamous attention *****s and have inflated ego's because of the amount of guys showing interest in them (online). They post a sexy pic on facebook from their blackberry smartphone and get 30 likes from whiteknights and its like a drug fix to those girls.

Back in the 90's when I was a teenager / early 20's, we didn't have this problem as there was no internet. Women could only select guys that approached them. The internet has completely moulded women into thinking they are hot celebrities and crass attention *****s.
 

Purefilth

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Zhanie said:
Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!
Actually - I'm right here, and absolutely fine.:yes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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J Roc

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mr. kennedy said:
Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?

No. Just because they arent on a "Dating Site" doesnt mean they dont have hundreds of guys hitting them up on facebook, instagram and twitter every day.
 
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