mr. kennedy
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Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls that aren't on dating sites
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
Is that because they're like Velcro? I have a friend who was considering it and I told her they were just booty calls....lol, but she's desperate at this point to find the perfect man ... which we all know doesn't really exist... no perfect woman either. Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!HedoRick said:I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
The Next Sodini
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Not just on dating sites, but girls that facebook, badoo and use other social networks daily are a red flag to me. They are usually hypergamous attention *****s and have inflated ego's because of the amount of guys showing interest in them (online). They post a sexy pic on facebook from their blackberry smartphone and get 30 likes from whiteknights and its like a drug fix to those girls.
Back in the 90's when I was a teenager / early 20's, we didn't have this problem as there was no internet. Women could only select guys that approached them. The internet has completely moulded women into thinking they are hot celebrities and crass attention *****s.
Back in the 90's when I was a teenager / early 20's, we didn't have this problem as there was no internet. Women could only select guys that approached them. The internet has completely moulded women into thinking they are hot celebrities and crass attention *****s.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Actually - I'm right here, and absolutely fine.:yes:Zhanie said:Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mr. kennedy said:Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?
No. Just because they arent on a "Dating Site" doesnt mean they dont have hundreds of guys hitting them up on facebook, instagram and twitter every day.