mr. kennedy
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Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girls that aren't on dating sites
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
Is that because they're like Velcro? I have a friend who was considering it and I told her they were just booty calls....lol, but she's desperate at this point to find the perfect man ... which we all know doesn't really exist... no perfect woman either. Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!HedoRick said:I definitely have respect for chicks that haven't been tainted by hundreds of thirsty online betas hitting them up. As a matter of fact, offline chicks get most of my time these days. The ones that I have met online are in the back of line, and for pump+dump purposes only.
The Next Sodini
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Not just on dating sites, but girls that facebook, badoo and use other social networks daily are a red flag to me. They are usually hypergamous attention *****s and have inflated ego's because of the amount of guys showing interest in them (online). They post a sexy pic on facebook from their blackberry smartphone and get 30 likes from whiteknights and its like a drug fix to those girls.
Back in the 90's when I was a teenager / early 20's, we didn't have this problem as there was no internet. Women could only select guys that approached them. The internet has completely moulded women into thinking they are hot celebrities and crass attention *****s.
Back in the 90's when I was a teenager / early 20's, we didn't have this problem as there was no internet. Women could only select guys that approached them. The internet has completely moulded women into thinking they are hot celebrities and crass attention *****s.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Actually - I'm right here, and absolutely fine.:yes:Zhanie said:Only one perfect person walked this earth and we all know what happened to him!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mr. kennedy said:Do you have more respect for them? Do you treat them any differently knowing there aren't 100 guys contacting her every day?
No. Just because they arent on a "Dating Site" doesnt mean they dont have hundreds of guys hitting them up on facebook, instagram and twitter every day.