"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheTrinity

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A couple of months ago, i botched things with this girl. I was indecisive, made tentative plans, wasn't making physical contact and to be honest...I was being the nice guy.

Then this morning, who do I see at a clothing store? Her. And for some reason and you could tell, she was seeking my attention. She was finding ways to be close to me and hoping I would notice her. But I played it cool, etc. etc. etc. did my thing, bought a couple of things and left. Part of me thought I should have said hello to her, etc. etc.

1) After I guess "resetting" or stepping away from her what's going through a girls mind for her to do that? I mean I thought I screwed it up so bad that she could even bare to look at me
2) If I had the opportunity to talk to her and I was interested...Do I go into flirt and banter mode right away? Do you start from scratch with her?

Has this happened to anyone else?

Your thoughts and opinions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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macagent

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i think the point is to talk to them if they are showing interest... unless she was rude or disrespectful to you, why blow it off when you had a chance to start "new" right there?
 
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PapiChulo

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It's just this- seeking attention. She just knows where to get it. He he. Did you improve yourself since then? Try going all sexual on her and see if she pulls back, that will show if she is really interested or looking for a free lunch.
 
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