"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TheTrinity

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A couple of months ago, i botched things with this girl. I was indecisive, made tentative plans, wasn't making physical contact and to be honest...I was being the nice guy.

Then this morning, who do I see at a clothing store? Her. And for some reason and you could tell, she was seeking my attention. She was finding ways to be close to me and hoping I would notice her. But I played it cool, etc. etc. etc. did my thing, bought a couple of things and left. Part of me thought I should have said hello to her, etc. etc.

1) After I guess "resetting" or stepping away from her what's going through a girls mind for her to do that? I mean I thought I screwed it up so bad that she could even bare to look at me
2) If I had the opportunity to talk to her and I was interested...Do I go into flirt and banter mode right away? Do you start from scratch with her?

Has this happened to anyone else?

Your thoughts and opinions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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macagent

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i think the point is to talk to them if they are showing interest... unless she was rude or disrespectful to you, why blow it off when you had a chance to start "new" right there?
 
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PapiChulo

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It's just this- seeking attention. She just knows where to get it. He he. Did you improve yourself since then? Try going all sexual on her and see if she pulls back, that will show if she is really interested or looking for a free lunch.
 
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