Girls seeking attention

[TheTrinity]

A couple of months ago, i botched things with this girl. I was indecisive, made tentative plans, wasn't making physical contact and to be honest...I was being the nice guy.

Then this morning, who do I see at a clothing store? Her. And for some reason and you could tell, she was seeking my attention. She was finding ways to be close to me and hoping I would notice her. But I played it cool, etc. etc. etc. did my thing, bought a couple of things and left. Part of me thought I should have said hello to her, etc. etc.

1) After I guess "resetting" or stepping away from her what's going through a girls mind for her to do that? I mean I thought I screwed it up so bad that she could even bare to look at me
2) If I had the opportunity to talk to her and I was interested...Do I go into flirt and banter mode right away? Do you start from scratch with her?

Has this happened to anyone else?

Your thoughts and opinions.

 

[macagent]

i think the point is to talk to them if they are showing interest... unless she was rude or disrespectful to you, why blow it off when you had a chance to start "new" right there?

 

[PapiChulo]

It's just this- seeking attention. She just knows where to get it. He he. Did you improve yourself since then? Try going all sexual on her and see if she pulls back, that will show if she is really interested or looking for a free lunch.