I finally go to a club near my college and the girl's are seriously dancing with their friends. They're going to keep doing that until some brad pitt look a like approaches them. The only guys dancing with girls were the guys with gfs.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girls rule the dating game too much
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Imagine u were a girl for a second. You are physically attractive, you know u are, people tell you that u are and to top this off you have a naturally low sex drive. If u were in that position you wouldnt really go out to ''have sex'' everytime because you know you can get it anytime u want and you are seeking a deeper connection with a person before getting down to it.
Girls are more social than guys and everything they do is usually motivated by how they are seen by others.
They usually go to clubs to have a good time with their friends and mingle and socialize and if you can operate on a social level while keeping your sexuality and masculinity , you will be fine. If you could get sex anytime you wanted , it would be cheapened to you and you would want something challenging and engaging/exciting. Thats the way it works. You need to be socially aware and attuned.
Girls are more social than guys and everything they do is usually motivated by how they are seen by others.
They usually go to clubs to have a good time with their friends and mingle and socialize and if you can operate on a social level while keeping your sexuality and masculinity , you will be fine. If you could get sex anytime you wanted , it would be cheapened to you and you would want something challenging and engaging/exciting. Thats the way it works. You need to be socially aware and attuned.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Ever tried to squeeze into their sandwich? So to speak..
I've had some success with this. Take turns dancing with both of them. Showing them both equal attention. It will also help to have a wing once you have identified your target to pawn her friend off onto. Or even, make friends with some random guy and say "hey, look at those two girls dancing with each other. you wanna take one while I take the other?". You might have to do this a couple times, as most guys are pvssies, but I've actually had really good luck at clubs. I'm also not afraid to dance by myself. If women see a guy dancing by himself they might just try to dance up on you, or you might see more and more girls doing to the floor and dancing a lone to (hoping that you will dance with them). Just go out and don't give a fvck man. That's all it is. I actually enjoy dancing, I think it's fun. So I can go into a club and have a good time and expect nothing, but a lot of times girls will just approach me. I didn't get them to approach me by sitting around watching everyone else. I went out and had fun. Go and read some of my past lay reports. I have a couple where I was dancing then took a break smoking/buying another drink and then some girl starts a conversation with me and makes the pick-up so incredibly easy for me. I've only been 21 for 10 months now, and I've gotten 3 lays sense I started clubbing. Idk why everyone disses on it. I love it.
-Scars
I've had some success with this. Take turns dancing with both of them. Showing them both equal attention. It will also help to have a wing once you have identified your target to pawn her friend off onto. Or even, make friends with some random guy and say "hey, look at those two girls dancing with each other. you wanna take one while I take the other?". You might have to do this a couple times, as most guys are pvssies, but I've actually had really good luck at clubs. I'm also not afraid to dance by myself. If women see a guy dancing by himself they might just try to dance up on you, or you might see more and more girls doing to the floor and dancing a lone to (hoping that you will dance with them). Just go out and don't give a fvck man. That's all it is. I actually enjoy dancing, I think it's fun. So I can go into a club and have a good time and expect nothing, but a lot of times girls will just approach me. I didn't get them to approach me by sitting around watching everyone else. I went out and had fun. Go and read some of my past lay reports. I have a couple where I was dancing then took a break smoking/buying another drink and then some girl starts a conversation with me and makes the pick-up so incredibly easy for me. I've only been 21 for 10 months now, and I've gotten 3 lays sense I started clubbing. Idk why everyone disses on it. I love it.
-Scars
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I still don't understand why men go to bars and clubs to get laid. I see so many men try this "night time game", the "PUA Game" in bars and clubs and I'd say only a small minority of men are actually successful. I just go to clubs to socialise, get my groove on the dancefloor and usually I am off my face, not really attractive to women, but I don't care, music sounds so much better when you're off your head.evansblue said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.