"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls response to me telling her I miss her.

bruceartest24

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The girl I been dating for a few months went on a vacation for two weeks and she is returning today. Last night I texted her to wish her a safe trip back and to let her know I miss her and can't wait to see her. She sends me a blushing emoji and says see you soon.

What are your thoughts? I was expecting a I miss you too or something... feels like a friend zone ish response.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zekko

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You're overthinking it. There's nothing wrong with that response.
Do yourself a favor and when you see her, focus on having fun with her instead of trying to analyze everything she says.
 

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zekko said:
You're overthinking it. There's nothing wrong with that response.
Do yourself a favor and when you see her, focus on having fun with her instead of trying to analyze everything she says.
This. You can not read anything from a text message, all communication is through body language, come back and tell us how she responded when she saw you... but you know what, if you just trust your gut you will know where you stand and won't need any advice.
 

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Personally, I wouldn't advise anyone to tell a woman he misses her. You always want to keep her guessing about what you're feeling or thinking. Handing it to her on a platter takes out all the mystery and fun for her. Anyway, you already said it so don't overthink her response. Just maintain a solid frame and you'll be good.
 

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bruceartest24 said:
The girl I been dating for a few months went on a vacation for two weeks and she is returning today. Last night I texted her to wish her a safe trip back
This is OK.

and to let her know I miss her and can't wait to see her. She sends me a blushing emoji and says see you soon.

What are your thoughts?
This is no good bro. She can use it against you: you got nothing to do but miss her, she can use it as ammunition with her current boyfriend. "Look this guy misses me, you better smarten up and marry me!"

Never put emotion in text. Text is just a medium to set up a meet. You put emotion in text and now you lost frame and are nervous. :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Firestar786

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Trump said:
This is OK.



This is no good bro. She can use it against you: you got nothing to do but miss her, she can use it as ammunition with her current boyfriend. "Look this guy misses me, you better smarten up and marry me!"

Never put emotion in text. Text is just a medium to set up a meet. You put emotion in text and now you lost frame and are nervous. :woo:
Very bad idea to say I miss you after two months.

Very bad idea.
 

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I agree with Firestar. Way to soon to say that to a girl only after 2 months. When she gets back, wait until end of week or several days (at least 4) before arranging to see her. Make yourself busy. Keep her guessing.
 
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