"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls Putting Their Legs on You

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Lately, a lot of girls have been putting their legs/feet up on my knees while they talk to me. Kind of like how you would put your feet up on a couch. They have not been doing it in a disrespectful way. This one particular girl has also been resting her head on my shoulder and saying she's "tired."

Do these actions qualify as "attracted" body language? No need to sh1t on me, I'm just wondering. I feel like they do. I'm just not sure how to escalate from there in a public setting and not do too much so that the girls end up feeling self-conscious and embarrassed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory

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I don't know about "attracted" there needs to be more for that. But it does show comfort.
 

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It could mean attraction, or it could mean you're a totally nice guy, who she loves to have as a friend. What do you think?
 

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If you're both sitting down and she puts her leg over your leg = GAME ON

Last time this happened to me I was making out with a female within minutes of she giving me that sign. Now when it comes to them resting their head on your shoulders that's sounds like comfort but you should take advantage of it. Put your arms around her, play with her hair, move your hand up and down her arm etc. Basically use this opportunity for kino in what she perceives as a harmless tender moment between you two. She won't suspect or know what you're trying to do but the more you touch a woman eventually you could turn her feelings for you if you keep at it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker said:
this thread is turning me on.
Yep that is kinda sexy especially if she's wearing something that shows of her thighs I would be feeling all up on that
 

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Depends, does she seem turned on? It's not that hard to tell.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No, she was just elevating her legs to prevent varicose veins.
 

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If you can lie your hand on a girls leg and she is welcoming to it... then the chance are you will be able to lie your **** on her leg and she will be just as welcoming.
 

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If her legs are on me, then I am touching them. For me that is an open invitation to touch. If any part of her is on me, same thing!!!!!!! I consider this an IOI. If a women is not feeling you, she will not touch you, period, end of discussion. If she does not like being touched by me, then she will kindly remove the part she is violating my space with.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
If her legs are on me, then I am touching them. For me that is an open invitation to touch. If any part of her is on me, same thing!!!!!!! I consider this an IOI. If a women is not feeling you, she will not touch you, period, end of discussion. If she does not like being touched by me, then she will kindly remove the part she is violating my space with.
its often an invitation-- but to what is the real question

:rolleyes:
 
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yes - a classic sign of the C3 phase of mystery method being saturated to an extent necessary to proceed to S1 - game on, brother!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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maqnetik said:
its often an invitation-- but to what is the real quetsion

:rolleyes:

The answer to the question, if she is touching me, that is the best indication of interest you can get. Actions not words!!! If she touches me, I'm touching her and we all know where that leads!

There begs the question is she touching me because she thinks I am nice guy??? I tell you one thing, I am going to disprove her way of thinking rather quickly and respond like gang busters.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
The answer to the question, if she is touching me, that is the best indication of interest you can get. Actions not words!!! If she touches me, I'm touching her and we all know where that leads!

There begs the question is she touching me because she thinks I am nice guy??? I tell you one thing, I am going to disprove her way of thinking rather quickly and respond like gang busters.
i like your style

:cool:
 

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Cry For Love said:
yes - a classic sign of the C3 phase of mystery method being saturated to an extent necessary to proceed to S1 - game on, brother!
No idea what that means or if you're being sarcastic. I'm gonna take it as a good thing/encouragement!

If her legs are on me, then I am touching them. For me that is an open invitation to touch. If any part of her is on me, same thing!!!!!!! I consider this an IOI. If a women is not feeling you, she will not touch you, period, end of discussion. If she does not like being touched by me, then she will kindly remove the part she is violating my space with.
This ^

The answer to the question, if she is touching me, that is the best indication of interest you can get. Actions not words!!! If she touches me, I'm touching her and we all know where that leads!

There begs the question is she touching me because she thinks I am nice guy??? I tell you one thing, I am going to disprove her way of thinking rather quickly and respond like gang busters.
And this^.

Definitely how I will handle this from now on. Thanks for your wise comments.
 

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It's too bad you haven't ****ed each and every one of these girls already.
 

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new_hotness said:
It's too bad you haven't ****ed each and every one of these girls already.
strongly agree
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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