"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls posing with underwear on the net!

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

I´ve noticed a trend on the internet. I´ve seen a lot of girls posting provocative pictures of them. You know the places, "my space" and the like.

Sometimes it´s funny because it´s like a bait for AFCs. They post their messages "Wow hottie, let´s hang out sometime" or "Wow, you´re hot".

Why on earth would a girl spend her time on her profile on the net? Just as an ego trip? :crazy:

What do you usually do? You just ignore them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BacardiGuy

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Yeah, it's pretty much for them to see how much attention they can get to boost their egos.

I don't even have a myspace so I don't pay any attention to that ****.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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I usually look, drool, then place a teasing comment on there.

I dont mind em. gives me a free show :)

then when my tease gets their attention, and they start to dig me, it just boosts MY ego instead.



whats funny is when they put a pic up thats obviously provocative (like showing undies, or lots of cleavage, etc) and they make a comment that has nothing to do with it, (IE a picture of her back, with her thong sticking out of her pants, not wearing a shirt, hands placed on ass, etc. and the comment "I just got my hair cut in this pic :)")

usually, I say something like "hey crewcut, your undies are showin"
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
whats funny is when they put a pic up thats obviously provocative (like showing undies, or lots of cleavage, etc) and they make a comment that has nothing to do with it, (IE a picture of her back, with her thong sticking out of her pants, not wearing a shirt, hands placed on ass, etc. and the comment "I just got my hair cut in this pic :)")

usually, I say something like "hey crewcut, your undies are showin"
Yeah! I´ve noticed that too. They make it seem it was not intentional but we know it was. They think we are stupid! :crackup:
 

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I use Myspace and Facebook.

They're easy places to communicate with other people, mostly girls.

Simply denouncing these sites as an ego trip is a hasty generalization.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Everyone wants their 15 minutes of fame. Internet attention whoring is simply the most convenient.
 

BacardiGuy

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Jack McCrack said:
Simply denouncing these sites as an ego trip is a hasty generalization.
We're talking about the provocative pictures on the site, not the sites themselves. :rolleyes:
 

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Those girls are just attention *****s. They just want to be able to say "wow look at all these guys that want me!" Any girl who has to post half-naked pics on the internet was probably not shown enough attention as a kid or something. I'll sometimes click on one of these and see 100 AFCs posting nonsense like "oh, damn baby, I'd love to meet you, please message me!!!" Yeah, that's really going to work! Those chics are best ignored. Imagine how crushed their egos would be if they posted a half naked pic and nobody dropped a single comment.
 

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speakeasy said:
...I'll sometimes click on one of these and see 100 AFCs posting nonsense like "oh, damn baby, I'd love to meet you, please message me!!!"...
Haha I notice the same thing too :D... even non-provocative pics have guys swarming around in the comments saying the exact same stuff...

I just want to say to them: "come on guys, you can think of something more creative than what 99 other guys before you have already said!"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the best looking girl i have met from myspace (hb9.5) had 8 pics, all of her face, none provacative at all, and she had the best body in real life

so you are right - because the hb9.5 basically was NOT an attention *****, because she could have been showing off, but she wasnt
 

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Docs said:
Even better is the fatty profiles that say "I'm looking for a hot guy to give a good time to"

:crackup:

ya! I've seen those ones too

I dunno. maybe on a lonely night I'd give her a call

at least she'd know where all the good restaurants are :crackup:
 

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Oh jeez - Anyone that has a myspace account that isn't for joining groups or serves a useful purpose is a sad little tosser looking for some recognition in the world because they realise they're just an insignificant statistic that would have been better just being a *** stain on their mother's face. Same as web pages 10 years ago.

Sorry couldn't resist.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just neg them.

leave a comment like "you really need to tone those legs up a little more".

or "i bet your tummy isn't flat like that when you aren't leaning back"

ahahah
 

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"Wow, you're a wh0re"
 

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Heyzeus said:
just neg them.

leave a comment like "you really need to tone those legs up a little more".
ahahah
This is a good one. :)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
I dunno. maybe on a lonely night I'd give her a call

at least she'd know where all the good restaurants are :crackup:
LMAO!!! Too funny.

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