"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls posing with underwear on the net!

Blue Phoenix

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Hi guys!

I´ve noticed a trend on the internet. I´ve seen a lot of girls posting provocative pictures of them. You know the places, "my space" and the like.

Sometimes it´s funny because it´s like a bait for AFCs. They post their messages "Wow hottie, let´s hang out sometime" or "Wow, you´re hot".

Why on earth would a girl spend her time on her profile on the net? Just as an ego trip? :crazy:

What do you usually do? You just ignore them?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BacardiGuy

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Yeah, it's pretty much for them to see how much attention they can get to boost their egos.

I don't even have a myspace so I don't pay any attention to that ****.
 

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I usually look, drool, then place a teasing comment on there.

I dont mind em. gives me a free show :)

then when my tease gets their attention, and they start to dig me, it just boosts MY ego instead.



whats funny is when they put a pic up thats obviously provocative (like showing undies, or lots of cleavage, etc) and they make a comment that has nothing to do with it, (IE a picture of her back, with her thong sticking out of her pants, not wearing a shirt, hands placed on ass, etc. and the comment "I just got my hair cut in this pic :)")

usually, I say something like "hey crewcut, your undies are showin"
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
whats funny is when they put a pic up thats obviously provocative (like showing undies, or lots of cleavage, etc) and they make a comment that has nothing to do with it, (IE a picture of her back, with her thong sticking out of her pants, not wearing a shirt, hands placed on ass, etc. and the comment "I just got my hair cut in this pic :)")

usually, I say something like "hey crewcut, your undies are showin"
Yeah! I´ve noticed that too. They make it seem it was not intentional but we know it was. They think we are stupid! :crackup:
 

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I use Myspace and Facebook.

They're easy places to communicate with other people, mostly girls.

Simply denouncing these sites as an ego trip is a hasty generalization.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone wants their 15 minutes of fame. Internet attention whoring is simply the most convenient.
 

BacardiGuy

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Jack McCrack said:
Simply denouncing these sites as an ego trip is a hasty generalization.
We're talking about the provocative pictures on the site, not the sites themselves. :rolleyes:
 

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Those girls are just attention *****s. They just want to be able to say "wow look at all these guys that want me!" Any girl who has to post half-naked pics on the internet was probably not shown enough attention as a kid or something. I'll sometimes click on one of these and see 100 AFCs posting nonsense like "oh, damn baby, I'd love to meet you, please message me!!!" Yeah, that's really going to work! Those chics are best ignored. Imagine how crushed their egos would be if they posted a half naked pic and nobody dropped a single comment.
 

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speakeasy said:
...I'll sometimes click on one of these and see 100 AFCs posting nonsense like "oh, damn baby, I'd love to meet you, please message me!!!"...
Haha I notice the same thing too :D... even non-provocative pics have guys swarming around in the comments saying the exact same stuff...

I just want to say to them: "come on guys, you can think of something more creative than what 99 other guys before you have already said!"
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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the best looking girl i have met from myspace (hb9.5) had 8 pics, all of her face, none provacative at all, and she had the best body in real life

so you are right - because the hb9.5 basically was NOT an attention *****, because she could have been showing off, but she wasnt
 

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Docs said:
Even better is the fatty profiles that say "I'm looking for a hot guy to give a good time to"

:crackup:

ya! I've seen those ones too

I dunno. maybe on a lonely night I'd give her a call

at least she'd know where all the good restaurants are :crackup:
 

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Oh jeez - Anyone that has a myspace account that isn't for joining groups or serves a useful purpose is a sad little tosser looking for some recognition in the world because they realise they're just an insignificant statistic that would have been better just being a *** stain on their mother's face. Same as web pages 10 years ago.

Sorry couldn't resist.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just neg them.

leave a comment like "you really need to tone those legs up a little more".

or "i bet your tummy isn't flat like that when you aren't leaning back"

ahahah
 

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"Wow, you're a wh0re"
 

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Heyzeus said:
just neg them.

leave a comment like "you really need to tone those legs up a little more".
ahahah
This is a good one. :)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
I dunno. maybe on a lonely night I'd give her a call

at least she'd know where all the good restaurants are :crackup:
LMAO!!! Too funny.

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