"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rhino22

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I joined that social networking site Myyearbook a few weeks ago and about two weeks ago met this girl through the "match" thing they do on there. We have been talking quite a bit via email and at one point I gave her my number to text or call me sometime in case her computer crashed again like she said it had. She didn't do that though but we kept emailing and then the other night she said, "I'm thinking about getting off this site because there are so many weirdoes that keep trying to talk to me. I still have your number but I'm kind of a wuss so I haven't texted you yet." So I responded and said that she could give me her number and I would text or call her.

That was two days ago and I see that she responded yesterday and gave me her number saying to call her if I was ever bored ha. So I just responded to the email tonight and said I had been really busy with working on my music and just answered some more of her questions, told her I hoped she was having a good week,etc.

How long should I wait to text her? Should I call her? Ask to hang out or what? I'm still kind of getting over a LTR so I am kind of depressed lately but this girl seems really cool and I find her quite attractive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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amoka

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Why text her? Didn't you have enough of behind the screen conversation with this girl? Call the woman up and set up a date... make it brief. By the way, does this woman live in your city? If not, dont waste your time on her.
 

2crudedudes

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is this online match making sh*t real? I've never tried it, so I don't know the slightest about it (I use myspace and facebook sparingly, and most of my "friends" are people I know from high school).
 

Rhino22

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Call her and set something up for the weekend or wait until next week?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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