Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rhino22

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I joined that social networking site Myyearbook a few weeks ago and about two weeks ago met this girl through the "match" thing they do on there. We have been talking quite a bit via email and at one point I gave her my number to text or call me sometime in case her computer crashed again like she said it had. She didn't do that though but we kept emailing and then the other night she said, "I'm thinking about getting off this site because there are so many weirdoes that keep trying to talk to me. I still have your number but I'm kind of a wuss so I haven't texted you yet." So I responded and said that she could give me her number and I would text or call her.

That was two days ago and I see that she responded yesterday and gave me her number saying to call her if I was ever bored ha. So I just responded to the email tonight and said I had been really busy with working on my music and just answered some more of her questions, told her I hoped she was having a good week,etc.

How long should I wait to text her? Should I call her? Ask to hang out or what? I'm still kind of getting over a LTR so I am kind of depressed lately but this girl seems really cool and I find her quite attractive.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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amoka

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Why text her? Didn't you have enough of behind the screen conversation with this girl? Call the woman up and set up a date... make it brief. By the way, does this woman live in your city? If not, dont waste your time on her.
 

2crudedudes

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is this online match making sh*t real? I've never tried it, so I don't know the slightest about it (I use myspace and facebook sparingly, and most of my "friends" are people I know from high school).
 

Rhino22

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Call her and set something up for the weekend or wait until next week?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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