"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I joined that social networking site Myyearbook a few weeks ago and about two weeks ago met this girl through the "match" thing they do on there. We have been talking quite a bit via email and at one point I gave her my number to text or call me sometime in case her computer crashed again like she said it had. She didn't do that though but we kept emailing and then the other night she said, "I'm thinking about getting off this site because there are so many weirdoes that keep trying to talk to me. I still have your number but I'm kind of a wuss so I haven't texted you yet." So I responded and said that she could give me her number and I would text or call her.

That was two days ago and I see that she responded yesterday and gave me her number saying to call her if I was ever bored ha. So I just responded to the email tonight and said I had been really busy with working on my music and just answered some more of her questions, told her I hoped she was having a good week,etc.

How long should I wait to text her? Should I call her? Ask to hang out or what? I'm still kind of getting over a LTR so I am kind of depressed lately but this girl seems really cool and I find her quite attractive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why text her? Didn't you have enough of behind the screen conversation with this girl? Call the woman up and set up a date... make it brief. By the way, does this woman live in your city? If not, dont waste your time on her.
 
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is this online match making sh*t real? I've never tried it, so I don't know the slightest about it (I use myspace and facebook sparingly, and most of my "friends" are people I know from high school).
 
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Call her and set something up for the weekend or wait until next week?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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