"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls on the side?

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Hi guys I've Been seeing my main girl coming up three months now & she told me a few days ago that she wants us to enter a relationship :rolleyes:

I do want a relationship, but I'm not ready for one with her yet. I enjoy spending time with her & potentially we could end up in a LTR in the future, but i want to have her as my main girl & still be out looking for someone better.

I'm going to tell her tonight that it's to soon for a relationship.
She is aware that i have been seeing other girls in the past so i know she will say "are you going to be seeing other girls?"

What do you guys do in this situation?
Be honest & say "yes i will be" or lie & see other girls??


I've had plenty of chances to meet other girls over the last two month, but i haven't because my time has been spent with main girl & work & other things. So it's not as though I'm going to be seeing other girls often.

Do many of you guys do this..have a main girl & see others?

I don't think she'll be happy if she knows I'm seeing other girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Her eyes are going to be peeled for any shred of evidence that another girl's still in the picture if you go the lie route. You've reached the crossroads. Be straight up about wanting to keep other girls around or drop her altogether.
 
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I'm not one to have these talks in the first place. Anytime a girl tries to bring up a relationship talk, I get comical and start ribbing her and tell her that she's too serious etcetera etcetera. **** I've kept that **** going for years sometimes lol. 3 months is a pretty short time to have the old relationship talk anyway, you guys must be pretty young.
 
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Zarky said:
I'm not one to have these talks in the first place. Anytime a girl tries to bring up a relationship talk, I get comical and start ribbing her and tell her that she's too serious etcetera etcetera. **** I've kept that **** going for years sometimes lol. 3 months is a pretty short time to have the old relationship talk anyway, you guys must be pretty young.
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Were both 30. I've seen her a few times since & she has'nt brought it up :)

She told me the other night that she thinks she might be pregnant.

Like I say i haven't got much free time to be seeing other girls, but i think i will if a good opportunity with a good girl comes along :)

Thanks for your input again Zarky. I'ts appreciated.
 
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