"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls on the side?

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Hi guys I've Been seeing my main girl coming up three months now & she told me a few days ago that she wants us to enter a relationship :rolleyes:

I do want a relationship, but I'm not ready for one with her yet. I enjoy spending time with her & potentially we could end up in a LTR in the future, but i want to have her as my main girl & still be out looking for someone better.

I'm going to tell her tonight that it's to soon for a relationship.
She is aware that i have been seeing other girls in the past so i know she will say "are you going to be seeing other girls?"

What do you guys do in this situation?
Be honest & say "yes i will be" or lie & see other girls??


I've had plenty of chances to meet other girls over the last two month, but i haven't because my time has been spent with main girl & work & other things. So it's not as though I'm going to be seeing other girls often.

Do many of you guys do this..have a main girl & see others?

I don't think she'll be happy if she knows I'm seeing other girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Her eyes are going to be peeled for any shred of evidence that another girl's still in the picture if you go the lie route. You've reached the crossroads. Be straight up about wanting to keep other girls around or drop her altogether.
 
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I'm not one to have these talks in the first place. Anytime a girl tries to bring up a relationship talk, I get comical and start ribbing her and tell her that she's too serious etcetera etcetera. **** I've kept that **** going for years sometimes lol. 3 months is a pretty short time to have the old relationship talk anyway, you guys must be pretty young.
 
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Zarky said:
I'm not one to have these talks in the first place. Anytime a girl tries to bring up a relationship talk, I get comical and start ribbing her and tell her that she's too serious etcetera etcetera. **** I've kept that **** going for years sometimes lol. 3 months is a pretty short time to have the old relationship talk anyway, you guys must be pretty young.
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Were both 30. I've seen her a few times since & she has'nt brought it up :)

She told me the other night that she thinks she might be pregnant.

Like I say i haven't got much free time to be seeing other girls, but i think i will if a good opportunity with a good girl comes along :)

Thanks for your input again Zarky. I'ts appreciated.
 
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