Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girls never know what they want
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
i don't believe that much in the overall truth of it but I believe in some cases you treat the queen like a ***** and the ***** like a queen. Be different and you will get a different result. Different isn't always good.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
yunghova35
Don Juan
i think i know where you went wrong.
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
biker_gixxer
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You're right, girls often times don't know what they want. But guess what, it doesn't matter.
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Don Juanabbe
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It doesn't matter if they know what they want or not, as long as you make her want you.
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My perspective on this is that you weren't ****ey and funny but just insulting. Just because you think you are being funny, and you actually may be, she could be so self conscious that it was insulting to her. We never really know how someone else ego's is built. Me personally when I kid around I try not to touch personal jokes unless I strongly believe the person can take it, if not Im going to joke about everything else.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
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"A$$hole" is a very vague term. If you were to take a big steamy dump on her pillow, I'm sure she'd think you were an a$$hole, but she wouldn't want to date you.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.